I've got a few fantasies of my own I'd like to share too!
If you are one of those who is taking recovery seriously you have probably received guidance from many individuals: therapists, sponsors, coaches, books, meetings, etc. It is important to remember that those who are there to help you through your personal recovery are not often marriage experts and some of their well-meaning marriage advice may hurt more than help. By putting your recovery first you are doing what is best for her. Ignore all advice that sounds anything like what I mentioned above–that “her side of the street” stuff. So, how do you let your wife in while respecting the anonymity of the group, while being able to feel safe in your counseling sessions without having to worry about having to go back and report everything that was said? Give her so much information that she doesn’t have to ask.When sex addicts are in early recovery, their wives (if they have chosen to stay in the marriage) live in fear. Your wife learned early on that she “didn’t cause it, can’t change it, and can’t control it.” So where’s the balance? Does that mean you can’t focus on your marriage at the same time? I’ve seen it happen enough to know it is possible, even in the direst of circumstances. Fear that you may lose your job because of a slip at work. But you are supposed to be in control of your recovery, right? But if you can get rid of those toxic ideas, and recognize you are stronger than some may want you to think you are, your marriage can survive and even thrive!Finger and lick my ass, fuck my stretchy snatch and spank me. Do you like experienced, fun, sexy older women that don't mind being a bit more adventurous?Foxy 40 yr old looking for complete strangers to call me up at home right now and get me wet. Grasping that throbbing shaft and sucking it right to the base, making me gag and dribble down your balls. Then give me a call and tell me all your dirty little thoughts.I want to drop to my knees and suck you off while I play with my wet snatch. You know a 47 year old like me is going to take what she can get and I'll let you do most things.